Showing posts with label #education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #education. Show all posts

Tuesday, 30 October 2018



SCREEN DEPENDENCY DISORDER IS REAL
      This is the gift of modern technology. It is real, it is on the rise and it is damaging your child’s brain. Screen dependency disorder, which is closely related to Internet addiction disorder is playing havoc with the life of our children. We are witnessing a growing trend of addictions to what I would like to call demoralising desires and temporary pleasures.
    As parents, you need to understand what screen addiction is. Screen addiction is when too much screen usage makes a child completely lost in it and they end up feeling that screens alone will make them happy. They reach a point where they always want to go back to it every time their hands are free! Screen addiction today is also called digital heroin – which means it’s as bad as drugging a child. It ruins relationships within the family, children get into a cocoon, conflicts arise, etc.

Physiological impairment

Here are some impacts of too much screen time on a child’s physiology:
1) Causes headaches- Prolonged exposure to bright blue light coming from the screen  generally induce headaches in children.  The underlying problem is that, constant headaches decrease a child’s ability to concentrate and perform tasks efficiently.
2) Leads to poor vision- I think you’ll agree that the number of children wearing spectacles nowadays is much more than that during our childhood.
3) Decline in physical activity- With tonnes of interesting and engaging content available on screen, physical activity will seem more of a task to children.
4) Affects posture- Excess time in front of gadgets affect your child’s posture. It forces your child to remain in unhealthy postures for prolonged periods, resulting in severe neck pain
5) Causes obesity- According to American Heart Association, 1 in 3 children are obese. Obesity is a major health-related problem arising due to excess screen time.
6) Causes irregular sleep cycle- Another problematic aspect of too much screen time is that they have been shown to disrupt sleep. This causes the child to keep on tossing and turning around, unable to fall asleep. Lack of sleep or irregular sleep affects a child’s sleep cycle, daily routine, and in turn, his/her health.

Psychological impairment

     Ever noticed how irritated a child gets when you take him/her off the screen? That’s because they are being denied the stimulating experience that screens provide.

1) Takes a toll on imagination- Imagination and creativity are an integral part of your child’s development.

2) Unable to tolerate losses- Most activities on the screen like games make life simpler and are more attractive for your child. So, whenever faced with a loss or an unfavourable result, he/she always has a choice to restart, sparing the disappointment of a loss.

3) Gives way to anxiety & depression- A child who spends more time on screen is prone to be either anxious or depressed when asked to get off screen — you may have already seen this yourself.

4) Increases violence- A child who plays a lot of violent games is said to imbibe and imitate what he/she sees.
For example: if a kid plays a lot of action games, he/she will constantly be seen punching, hitting, or shooting imaginary opponents. However, the problem is that, involuntarily the child becomes rude, agitated, and often picks up fights with siblings, friends, classmates.

5) Leads to lesser social interaction- The worst effect of tv/gadgets on children is perhaps social disconnection. Research also shows that too much screen time also causes speech delay — which means, the more the screen time for your child, the longer it will take for their speech to develop!

And that’s not all… Screens trigger the reward mechanism or the pleasure parts in the brain – which makes the child more addicted. The reason this occurs is that screens in whichever form – tabs, smartphones, TV, video games, etc. are extremely stimulating.
                                              Health Hazards
     In the recent years, there has been a lot of speculation about the impact of cell phone radiation on our body. A study by The Journal of the American Medical Association stirred the debate when it investigated the repercussion the mobile phones could have on the brain activity. The possible health hazards of mobile phones for children are as follows:
Non-Malignant Tumors: The study has shown that children who use mobile phones have a possibility of developing non-malignant tumor in the brain and ear.
Cancer:- The WHO has classified cell phone radiation as ‘possibly carcinogenic to humans’. Children absorb more than 60 percent of the radiation into the brain than adults. Their brain’s thinner skin, tissues, and bones allow them to absorb the radiation twice than the grown-ups.
Effects On The Brain: Scientists have discovered that just 2 minutes of the phone call can alter the electoral activity of the kid’s brain for up to an hour.
As a parent, you must take preventive measures to minimize your child’s exposure to the harmful effects of mobile phones. Here are some simple steps  to help you battle these addictions.
1. Parental teamwork- It is absolutely essential for parents to discuss and decide how to tackle this situation together as a team.

2. Monitor what your child is watching- Keep home entertainment in a shared area of the house to watch with them as often as possible. It’s not about ‘not trusting’ them. It’s about protecting them from things they don’t know.

3. Have clear rules- Agree on time limits for logging on, playing, messaging, etc. each day and stick to them, no matter how much they nag or cry; don’t give in just to silence them.
4. Address online stranger dangers- You may feel like you’re scaring your kids when talking to them about the dangers of being online, but it’s better for them to be scared than to be unaware. 
6. Inculcate time for books- As your child begins learning to read and write, this will require them to slow down their mind.
7. Play games with them- Children love to play and be amused. Computer game manufacturers have subtly hijacked the language of play.
8. Practice what you preach- Be honest. Are you spending more time with your laptop/phone than with your family? Are your kids just imitating you?  Switch off your laptop and put your phone on silent when sharing time with your family. Set times when you will check email and messages, and stick to them.
9. Provide alternatives- Do you feel it’s too late and your child is already too addicted that they may throw tantrums when you change the rules? Maybe it’s turned into a default activity simply because there’s nothing else to do.
Practical Mobile Phone Safety Tips for Kids:
·         Do not give cell phone if your child is under 16 years. A child’s brain is too sensitive to withstand the effects of mobile radiation.
·         Do not let your child hold a mobile phone directly up to his head.
·         Do not let your child make calls in buses, trains, cars, and elevators. The mobile phone works harder to get the signal out through the metal, which increases the power level.
·         Do not let your child use cell phone when the signal is weak. It will increase the power to the maximum, as the phone attempts to connect to a new relay antenna.
·         Limit the use of cell phone around children.
·         Do not let children take mobile phones to school.
·         Do not leave mobile phones in your children’s bedroom at night.

      So these are the harmful effects of mobile phones on children. What changes have you made in your child’s cell phone usage considering these potential health risks? Please share with the other Parents and Teachers and even your children.
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Obed Khan- Teacher / Trainer / Life Coach
 (Vowel Education Academy)
vowelhelpdesk@gmail.com



Sunday, 2 September 2018

ISLAMIC EDUCATION- The Parent's Role


Islamic Education- The Parent’s Role
       Islamic education should be informative plus transformative. Attention…Parents … You are responsible for the education and upbringing of your child. Both the Qur’an and Sunnah point out that the Parents are responsible for their child’s moral and academic education. 


In Surah At Tahreem, 66:6, Allah instructs “Save yourself and your family from the fire whose fuel are men and stones….”. And from many hadeeths we come to know that the Parents are responsible for their childs upbringing….. “Everyone of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock…..”
WHAT IS EDUCATION?
Education is the process of acquisition of knowledge, both theoretical and practical.
WHAT IS ISLAMIC EDUCATION?
Islamic Education is the process of acquisition of Islamic knowledge, both theoretical and practical, from the Qur’an and Sunnah.
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF ISLAMIC EDUCATION?
       The purpose of Islamic Education is to connect the Abd with his Rabb. In an Islamic School,  the subjects that are taught viz. Islamic Studies, Quranic studies, Hifz etc and even academic subjects like Science, Maths, Social Studies etc should bring the child closer to his Creator. If the Islamic Education does not fulfill this purpose then it is misguidance.
       Unfortunately, there is a gap between what we expect the child to become and what he actually becomes. Many children fall short of the standards that are expected of them as students of an Islamic School. At the end of the day, many children if not all, don’t really like to read the Qur’an or offer Salah, they are too busy following the fashion dictates of the Sport stars and Film stars instead of following the Sunnah.
        The problem lies in the fact that we are confused between Taleem and Tarbiyah. When the children need Tarbiyah, we give them an overdose of Taleem. Taleem is fact based education, knowledge, information that we provide the child. And Tarbiyah is that we train the child to like the knowledge which he gets. Tarbiyah is the process of the development of the child in such a away that he loves to practice what he is taught.
       And this can be done only with the co-operation, active participation and commitment of the Parents. YOU CANNOT OUTSOURCE PARENTING. With the Parents realizing their role we can  make our children excellent and dynamic Muslims who can make a better Ummah in the future. And then eventually, we can create a peaceful and progressive society and Nation.
Obed Khan (Vowel Education Academy)
vowelhelpdesk@gmail.com
Teacher / Trainer / Educator